Adoption for Doctors and OBGYN

There are many ways you can be your patient’s support at such a critical time. For example, the birth mother may become indecisive or need medical advice from a professional perspective. In certain situations, you can take action in the best way possible, without any bias or opinion getting in the way. 

1. Give Logical/ Factual Advice: You are a professional in all things regarding pregnancy, childbirth, and fertility/infertility.

   As a professional in pregnancy, childbirth, and fertility/infertility, it is crucial to offer accurate and reliable information to support the birth mother. When discussing her baby’s health in the context of adoption, ensure you provide clear, factual details to help alleviate her concerns and foster trust.

   If the patient seeks medical advice, base your responses on a thorough professional assessment and provide evidence-based information. Should the birth mother raise questions about the adoption process, offer logical and impartial guidance while remaining sensitive to her feelings.

   Avoid expressing personal opinions about adoption, as this is a deeply personal decision for the birth mother. Any perceived bias could increase her stress and uncertainty. Instead, focus on providing practical insights and support to help her navigate her choices with confidence and clarity. By maintaining a compassionate and objective approach, you can ease her worries and empower her to make informed decisions.

2. Show Empathy for the Birth Mother: Your patient may have difficulty experiencing this adoption for what it is. They may go back and forth on decisions and ask for your opinion. Remember to be empathetic and show sensitivity to your patient. This is a vulnerable and crucial time for them. Some support about adoption from Doctors and OBGYN’s can do wonders for their experience.
3. Prioritize Your Birth Mother’s Needs and Wants: As a medical professional, it is your job to state the facts and steps on the procedure during this adoption. If there are medical setbacks or options regarding the pregnancy, definitely voice them. Keep in mind that certain circumstances that have a choice, including adoption decisions, are for the birth mother to decide on. 

Part of your job is to support the birth mother and go with her needs and wants for this entire adoption process. Whatever makes her happy, satisfied, or even accept this adoption, you want her to feel safe and comfortable around you. Knowing she has a person looking out for her and accepting her decisions as final is essential for her state of mind and physical wellness.